What do you do when you found out you are no longer in love?
7 Nov 2007
What do you do when you found out you are no longer in love?
What do you do when the lights get turned on again? All of a sudden you wake up and came out of the trance, was it an illusion? At this stage you may withdraw, separate, divorce and you start to look for a new "In love experience".
The solution is to avoid a break up and to learn to love each other without the euphoria of the in love obsession, Why studies have found that 40% of marriages in US end in divorce, 60% second marriage and 75 % of 3rd marriages likewise fail. Do you want to go through the same cycle again and again?
You have the power of choice
Staying in love now becomes a matter of choice. You have a choice to choose whether love is a noun or an action verb. Real love emotion not obsess ional, love becomes a choice attitude of I choose to look out for your interest
Love can now become an act of will, discipline personal growth you can now choose to communicate the emotion of love effectively. Effective love communication means you learn to speak your partner's Primary Love Language.
To keep your relationship moving in high gear you must understand these simple but basic facts. People come from different places, cultures, background, and speak different languages. The way you interpreter or receive emotional messages like love and affection is no different. It is seldom that two partners will speak the same emotional love language.
Most of you grow up learning the primary language of your parents and feel comfortable speaking this Primary or Native language. You speak and understand best your Native language. For me I speak more than one language, but when I get emotionally charged I have noticed that I switch to my primary language unconsciously.
Communication does become awkward or difficult when you encounter someone who speaks another language different from you. You can communicate effectively with your partner if both of you have the ability to use the same language. If not then either you or they will have to learn the language of the other to make the relationship work.
People have five basic languages that we use to interpreter love emotion. These five love languages can take the form of many different dialects. For you to communicate love emotion to your partner effectively you must endeavor to find your partner's love language and use it. Learn to speak your partners Love Language. What are the basic five love languages?
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